To become successful in the game of life, kids must have the desire to reach beyond the basics. They must learn how to take personal responsibility for their actions. You've all met children and even adults who never learned how to be responsible. Whatever happens they blame others.
They've never acquired the skills for success by learning how to achieve in the game of life beyond the basics. To acquire their needs they still whine, cry, pout, and even threaten. Some never learn, but your children can. The System itself is simple to apply, but in order to understand how and why it works, let's first take a look at the laws of behavior, the laws of success, and how kids change.
Book excerpt from The Defiant Ones by Dr. Bruns
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